Clearly you're a man of great wisdom ... and for the length of time we know each other - all of FRC's existence - I have always valued the positive ideas and advice you shared with me - to some of life personal challenges.
Yes, Life is what we make it ~ always has been and always will be ..! In other words - we are the architects of our own happiness ...
On the other hand ~ even if a "wall" was built for and when the water rises - it can still just rise enough going over. Which I'm of the same opinion - we have no control over ... So in a sense with the race of time, my reaction/thoughts isn't really looking backwards (reversing) but rather looking forward while viewing rearview mirrors and still not knowing what's in store for the future ...
However - while we are all trying to seek out happiness with the Gift of Life ~ I too hope my own is a positive one

Btw - how you displayed POSTPONED TO 10TH AUGUST is what made me remember the next day (5 years ago) which also happens to be my brother's birthday.
Thanks again for your encouragement,
Luke